Depending on who was wronged in the relationship, for the most part, men can be inconsiderate to women emotions. Women have been guilty of being inconsiderate to men emotions but more often than not, men are on the side of this spectrum. Why do inconsiderate men play on women emotions? The answer to that question is akin to the joke that comedians use and that is because they can. But to put substance to the answer, the question will be answered with reasoning and examples.
Inconsiderate men play on women emotions because of the very nature of a woman and that is to emote how she feels openly and often honestly. Women know from the chemistry of love if they are in love with a man. Their declaration of love is not always answered with an "I love you, too." Normally a man will be guarding his emotions to keep his power over his emotions and will more likely answer: "You know that I do." Why is it so hard for a man to say "I love you" most women would ask?: Do men think that they are committed to the relationship and they now have to wear a ball and chain and sit glued in front of the television set? Or are men just inconsiderate when it comes to women emotions and chooses to play on their feelings?
The woman's openness to her emotions put her in the ball park of the catcher instead of the pitcher on the diamond field of love. The woman catches all of the man's faults and promptly forgive them or think she needs to begin to work on herself to change and make him fall happily and helplessly in love with her. Some women try to change their man into what she perceive to be a better person and at least with added consideration. As the receiver of all this affection, the man in the relationship, is put in the pampered position of being loved by a woman. He does not necessarily return her love with the same relationship changes because believe it or not some men still think that a sign of their love is just sexual attraction
Inconsiderate men play on women feelings also to get to a woman's sexuality. Men do not think the same as women and because they are more visual, they see that they may be able to play on the woman's feelings because of the woman's propensity to feel more than they do. If the woman is a little overweight and self conscious about it, the inconsiderate man may play on her feelings because of those spoken or unspoken insecurities. A recent talk show revealed that overweight women get into more intimate relationships than thinner women. Is this because these overweight women allow inconsiderate men to play on their feelings and promptly reward them helplessly.
In a woman and man relationship, the man is the conquistador or thinks that he must conquer to prove that the woman is worthy his time. In the past, women use to play on men's feelings and act like they were "hard to get" so that the man could participate in the "hunt" for her. Now the table has been turned with the advent of technology, where women are texting men or calling them on cell phones initiating relationships. That is one of the main ways inconsiderate men get to play with women's feelings. The men think that they are irresistible and if the woman is after him, then why not play on her feelings. The woman who is constantly emailing him or texting the man is taking away his innate male quality of conquering the female mystique.
Inconsiderate men play on women feeling basically because of the changing of society norms and mores that says that now women can be the conquistador. Inconsiderate men in their practical way of thinking have found other ways to combat the female seeking male scenario. Most men think the woman must be desperate to be on the search for a man and is openly inconsiderate when she gets him in the ball game. Women need to be on the look out for inconsiderate men and not to allow them to play on their feelings as they have more respect for themselves than to have their feelings manipulated and mostly for the man's sexual pleasures void of any emotional attachment.
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