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Tuesday 30 November 2010
Sunday 28 November 2010
DON’T BE AFRAID TO FAIL…
You’ve failed many times, although you may not remember.
You fell down the first time you tried to walk.
You almost drowned the first time you tried to swim, didn’t you
Did you hit the ball the first time you swung a bat
You fell down the first time you tried to walk.
You almost drowned the first time you tried to swim, didn’t you
Did you hit the ball the first time you swung a bat
You’ve failed many times, although you may not remember.
You fell down the first time you tried to walk.
You almost drowned the first time you tried to swim, didn’t you
Did you hit the ball the first time you swung a bat
Heavy hitters, the ones who hit the most home runs, also strike out a lot.
You fell down the first time you tried to walk.
You almost drowned the first time you tried to swim, didn’t you
Did you hit the ball the first time you swung a bat
Heavy hitters, the ones who hit the most home runs, also strike out a lot.
R.H. Macy failed seven times before his store in New York caught on.
English novelist John Creasey got 753 rejection slips before he published 564 books.
Babe Ruth struck out 1,330 times, but he also hit 714 home runs.
Don’t worry about failure.
Worry about the chances you miss when you don’t even try.
Friday 26 November 2010
STRENGTH…
When your strength is failing
and you are faltering in your faith
pause for a moment, take a deep breath
and God your Father who is the source
of your strength, will refresh and re-kindle your faith.
When your strength is failing
and you are faltering in your faith
pause for a moment, take a deep breath
and God your Father who is the source
of your strength, will refresh and re-kindle your faith.
Remember the battle is not yours,
it is the Lord’s battle, and He is
fighting for you.
Don’t ever forget to wait on the Lord.
God will continually give you strength
to overcome every trial and sustain you
in your weakest moments.
Thursday 25 November 2010
Don’t Let Go Of Hope...
Hope gives you the strength to keep going
when you feel like giving up.
when you feel like giving up.
Hope gives you the strength to keep going
when you feel like giving up.
when you feel like giving up.
Don’t ever quit believing in yourself.
As long as you believe you can,
you will have a reason for trying.
As long as you believe you can,
you will have a reason for trying.
Don’t let anyone hold your happiness in their hands;
hold it in your own, so it will always be within your reach.
hold it in your own, so it will always be within your reach.
Don’t measure success or failure by material wealth,
but by how you feel. Our feelings determine the riches in our lives.
but by how you feel. Our feelings determine the riches in our lives.
Don’t let bad moments overcome you.
Be patient, and they will pass.
Be patient, and they will pass.
Don’t hesitate to reach out for help;
we all need it from time to time.
we all need it from time to time.
Don’t runaway from Love, but towards love;
because it is our deepest joy.
because it is our deepest joy.
Don’t wait for what you want to come to you.
Go after it with all that you are;
knowing that life will meet you half way.
Go after it with all that you are;
knowing that life will meet you half way.
Don’t feel like you’ve lost when plans
and dreams fall short of your hopes.
and dreams fall short of your hopes.
Anytime you learn something new about yourself,
or about life, you have progressed.
or about life, you have progressed.
Don’t do anything that takes away from your self-respect.
Feeling GOOD about yourself is essential to feeling GOOD about life.
Feeling GOOD about yourself is essential to feeling GOOD about life.
Don’t ever forget how to laugh or be too proud to cry.
It is by doing both that we live life to the FULLEST.
It is by doing both that we live life to the FULLEST.
Four Classic Thanksgiving Myths
Thanksgiving myths are common and persistent in American
culture, possibly because they've been institutionalized in
our schools and passed down from one generation to another.
Just because they're the official stories we're told does not
make them true.
In fact, Thanksgiving is an invented tradition that owes more
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culture, possibly because they've been institutionalized in
our schools and passed down from one generation to another.
Just because they're the official stories we're told does not
make them true.
In fact, Thanksgiving is an invented tradition that owes more
to Abe Lincoln for making it a formal holiday than to the
Pilgrims. Who, by the way, weren't even introduced as a part
of the holiday until the late 19th century! Care to learn more
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Wednesday 24 November 2010
NEVER GIVE UP!
One day I decided to quit… I quit my job, my relationship, my spirituality… I wanted to quit my life.
I went to the woods to have one last talk with God.
I went to the woods to have one last talk with God.
One day I decided to quit… I quit my job, my relationship, my spirituality… I wanted to quit my life.
I went to the woods to have one last talk with God.
I went to the woods to have one last talk with God.
“God”, I said. “Can you give me one good reason not to quit?” His answer surprised me… “Look around”, He said. “Do you see the fern and the bamboo?”
“Yes”, I replied. When I planted the fern and the bamboo seeds, I took very good care of them. I gave them light. I gave them water. The fern quickly grew from the earth. Its brilliant green covered the floor. Yet nothing came from the bamboo seed. But I did not quit on the bamboo.
In the second year the Fern grew more vibrant and plentiful. And again, nothing came from the bamboo seed. But I did not quit on the bamboo.
He said. “In the third year, there was still nothing from the bamboo seed. But I would not quit.”
In the fourth year, again, there was nothing from the bamboo seed. “I would not quit.” He said.
“Then in the fifth year a tiny sprout emerged from the earth. Compared to the fern it was seemingly small and insignificant…
But just 6 months later the bamboo rose to over 100 feet tall. It had spent the five years growing roots. Those roots made it strong and gave it what it needed to survive. I would not give any of my creations a challenge it could not handle.”
He said to me. “Did you know, my child, that all this time you have been struggling, you have actually been growing roots.” “I would not quit on the bamboo. I will never quit on you.
“Don’t compare yourself to others ..” He said. ” The bamboo had a different purpose than the fern … Yet, they both make the forest beautiful.
“Don’t compare yourself to others ..” He said. ” The bamboo had a different purpose than the fern … Yet, they both make the forest beautiful.
“Your time will come, ” God said to me. ” You will rise high! ” How high should I rise?” I asked. How high will the bamboo rise?” He asked in return. “As high as it can? ” I questioned. ” Yes. ” He said, “Give me glory by rising as high as you can. ”
I left the forest and bring back this story. I hope these words can help you see that God will never give up on you. He will never give up on you. Never regret a day in your life.
Good days give you happiness. Bad days give you experiences. Both are essential to life. A happy and meaningful life requires our continuous input and creativity. It does not happen by chance. It happens because of our choices and actions. And each day we are given new opportunities to choose and act and, in doing so, we create our own unique journey.”
Keep going… Happiness keeps you Sweet,
Trials keep you Strong,
Sorrows keep you Human,
Failures keep you humble,
Success keeps You Glowing,
But Only God keeps You Going!
Tuesday 23 November 2010
NEVER LOSE HOPE...
If you can find beauty in the colors of a small flower,
then you still have hope…
If you can find pleasure in the movement of a butterfly,
then you still have hope…
then you still have hope…
If you can find pleasure in the movement of a butterfly,
then you still have hope…
If you can see the good in other people, then you still have hope…
If the rain breaking on a roof top can still lull you to sleep, then you still have hope…
If the sight of a rainbow still makes you stop and stare in wonder, then you still have hope…
If the soft fur of a favored pet still feels pleasant under your fingertips, then you still have hope…
If you still offer your hand in friendship to others that have touched your life, then you still have hope…
If receiving an unexpected card or letter still brings
a pleasant surprise, then you still have hope…
a pleasant surprise, then you still have hope…
If you still buy the ornaments, put up the Christmas tree
or cook the turkey, then you still have hope…
or cook the turkey, then you still have hope…
If you still watch love stories or want the endings to be happy, then you still have hope…
If you can look to the past and smile, then you still have hope….
If, when faced with the bad, when told everything is futile, you can still look up and end the conversation with the phrase…
“yeah….BUT..” Then you still have hope…
“yeah….BUT..” Then you still have hope…
Hope is such a marvelous thing. It bends, it twists, it sometimes hides, but rarely does it break… It sustains us when nothing else can…
It gives us reason to continue and courage to move ahead, when we tell ourselves we’d rather give in…
It gives us reason to continue and courage to move ahead, when we tell ourselves we’d rather give in…
Hope puts a smile on our face when the heart cannot manage… Hope puts our feet on the path when our eyes cannot see it…
Hope moves us to act when our souls are confused of the direction….
Hope moves us to act when our souls are confused of the direction….
Hope is a wonderful thing, something to be cherished and nurtured, and something that will refresh us in return…
And it can be found in each of us, and it can bring light into the darkest of places…
Never Lose Hope
And it can be found in each of us, and it can bring light into the darkest of places…
Never Lose Hope
Disciplining Your Children...
Every parent struggles with the right approach towards disciplining their children. Since correcting our children is unpleasant, it is easier for us to simply ignore sinful behavior. Then when our children make us angry or embarrass us we have a tendency to lash out at them. Both behaviors are harmful.
Frequently the biggest barriers to biblical parenting are the experiences we had as children. We tend to do what was done to us. Our job becomes more complicated by the world’s approach to parenting. Many will tell you that disciplining your child is abuse and will report you to authorities. They may be right. If you allow your emotions to lead you rather than scripture, you may be guilty of child abuse.
What are some important things for parents to remember as we correct our children? What are some tips to help us obey scripture, avoid child abuse, and lay a strong foundation in our child’s life?
Correcting your child is an important part of a discipleship lifestyle. Scripture has much to share about confronting and correcting sinful behavior. Here are some Biblical patterns to develop when correcting your children:
1. Begin with the right perspective. You discipline for your child’s protection and blessing. Ephesians 6:2 repeats the commandment that children must obey and honor their father and mother because it comes with a promise. That promise is “long life and that things will go well with them.” Since you want only the very best for your children (a long and blessed life), you must correct and discipline them. If you don’t discipline your children in essence you are shortening and cursing their life. Your correction also protects them from harm. An example of this is disciplining your child for playing on a busy street.
2. Develop your relationship first, and keep the relationship the main thing. Lay the foundation of your parental discipleship approach with praise, affection and expressions of love. Spend a lot of time with your child. Listen carefully to your children; give them your undivided attention. Let them know that what they have to say is important. Spend one-on-one time with each child.
3. Approach correction like a sports coach. Like Jesus did with His disciples, good sports coaches constantly observe their players and make corrections. My daughter is a ballet dancer. When she is not being corrected, she feels like her teacher does not value her. Children who are loved know they are being corrected because their parents care for them. Teach your children what Bible says about correction; remind them that they are being disciplined because you love them.
4. Discipline for sin, not for mistakes. Be sure that you have identified the sinful behavior of your child so that you can clearly point to scripture and discuss the sin. Never discipline your child for making a mistake, such as breaking a dish or spilling a drink. That is not sin. That is an accident! A child being annoying or embarrassing is not necessarily a sin; it might point to your own sin of neglect. Instead, keep your eyes open for issues of the heart. Some examples might include selfishness (fighting over toys… you have two sinners), deceit, disobedience, covetousness, etc.
5. Communicate your regret for having to discipline your child. Your child needs to understand that correction is an unpleasant task for you, that you take no pleasure in administering correction. Help them understand that you must obey the Lord. He commands you to correct your child. Always speak to your child in a kind manner during correction.
6. Teach your child to self-diagnose the sin in their heart, with the help of the Holy Spirit. This is a very important aspect of discipline. Since sin separates us from God, we need to quickly repent so that we can be restored. The sooner your child learns to recognize their sins and repent the better. When you correct your children, ask them what sin they have committed. Teach them to ask the Holy Spirit to help them look into their hearts and know when they have sinned.
7. Select the appropriate means of correction. Rebellion may require corporeal discipline for younger children. But some children may only need to be rebuked or admonished. Vary your approach. Losing privileges can be effective for younger and older children. Try to link the consequences to the sin. For example not getting homework done might result in the loss of a game or extracurricular activity for a period of time, since that is a distraction to the child from doing his homework.
8. Discipline your child promptly and privately, but only when you are completely calm. Never administer discipline when you are angry! If you are tempted to lash out at your child, wait until your anger has passed before you administer correction. However, ignoring your child’s sin is harmful to your child. Be consistent and prompt in dealing with your child’s sin. Lead them to repent and ask the Lord for forgiveness. Pray for your child. Finally, correct your child in private. You may choose to follow Matthew 18:15-17 for rebellious behavior, but keep it within the family.
9. Confess your own sins, past and present. Help your children to see that you are a sinner just like them. Ask your children to forgive you when you sin or wrong them in some way. Show your children that we all sin and are in need of the gospel (Romans 3:23). Share testimonies of how the Lord gave you victory over specific sins.
10. Restore your child and never mention the sin again. The 23rd Psalm tells us that Jesus the Shepherd “restores my soul.” Restoration is our goal with correction. Hug your children and tell them that you love them. At that point all is forgiven and forgotten.
As we examine the life of Jesus, there were many times when He corrected His disciples for wrong or sinful behavior. Jesus showed us that correction is an important aspect of discipleship. We are told in James 12:6 that “the Father chastens those whom He loves.” Fix your eyes upon Jesus and He will show you the way!
Frequently the biggest barriers to biblical parenting are the experiences we had as children. We tend to do what was done to us. Our job becomes more complicated by the world’s approach to parenting. Many will tell you that disciplining your child is abuse and will report you to authorities. They may be right. If you allow your emotions to lead you rather than scripture, you may be guilty of child abuse.
What are some important things for parents to remember as we correct our children? What are some tips to help us obey scripture, avoid child abuse, and lay a strong foundation in our child’s life?
Correcting your child is an important part of a discipleship lifestyle. Scripture has much to share about confronting and correcting sinful behavior. Here are some Biblical patterns to develop when correcting your children:
1. Begin with the right perspective. You discipline for your child’s protection and blessing. Ephesians 6:2 repeats the commandment that children must obey and honor their father and mother because it comes with a promise. That promise is “long life and that things will go well with them.” Since you want only the very best for your children (a long and blessed life), you must correct and discipline them. If you don’t discipline your children in essence you are shortening and cursing their life. Your correction also protects them from harm. An example of this is disciplining your child for playing on a busy street.
2. Develop your relationship first, and keep the relationship the main thing. Lay the foundation of your parental discipleship approach with praise, affection and expressions of love. Spend a lot of time with your child. Listen carefully to your children; give them your undivided attention. Let them know that what they have to say is important. Spend one-on-one time with each child.
3. Approach correction like a sports coach. Like Jesus did with His disciples, good sports coaches constantly observe their players and make corrections. My daughter is a ballet dancer. When she is not being corrected, she feels like her teacher does not value her. Children who are loved know they are being corrected because their parents care for them. Teach your children what Bible says about correction; remind them that they are being disciplined because you love them.
4. Discipline for sin, not for mistakes. Be sure that you have identified the sinful behavior of your child so that you can clearly point to scripture and discuss the sin. Never discipline your child for making a mistake, such as breaking a dish or spilling a drink. That is not sin. That is an accident! A child being annoying or embarrassing is not necessarily a sin; it might point to your own sin of neglect. Instead, keep your eyes open for issues of the heart. Some examples might include selfishness (fighting over toys… you have two sinners), deceit, disobedience, covetousness, etc.
5. Communicate your regret for having to discipline your child. Your child needs to understand that correction is an unpleasant task for you, that you take no pleasure in administering correction. Help them understand that you must obey the Lord. He commands you to correct your child. Always speak to your child in a kind manner during correction.
6. Teach your child to self-diagnose the sin in their heart, with the help of the Holy Spirit. This is a very important aspect of discipline. Since sin separates us from God, we need to quickly repent so that we can be restored. The sooner your child learns to recognize their sins and repent the better. When you correct your children, ask them what sin they have committed. Teach them to ask the Holy Spirit to help them look into their hearts and know when they have sinned.
7. Select the appropriate means of correction. Rebellion may require corporeal discipline for younger children. But some children may only need to be rebuked or admonished. Vary your approach. Losing privileges can be effective for younger and older children. Try to link the consequences to the sin. For example not getting homework done might result in the loss of a game or extracurricular activity for a period of time, since that is a distraction to the child from doing his homework.
8. Discipline your child promptly and privately, but only when you are completely calm. Never administer discipline when you are angry! If you are tempted to lash out at your child, wait until your anger has passed before you administer correction. However, ignoring your child’s sin is harmful to your child. Be consistent and prompt in dealing with your child’s sin. Lead them to repent and ask the Lord for forgiveness. Pray for your child. Finally, correct your child in private. You may choose to follow Matthew 18:15-17 for rebellious behavior, but keep it within the family.
9. Confess your own sins, past and present. Help your children to see that you are a sinner just like them. Ask your children to forgive you when you sin or wrong them in some way. Show your children that we all sin and are in need of the gospel (Romans 3:23). Share testimonies of how the Lord gave you victory over specific sins.
10. Restore your child and never mention the sin again. The 23rd Psalm tells us that Jesus the Shepherd “restores my soul.” Restoration is our goal with correction. Hug your children and tell them that you love them. At that point all is forgiven and forgotten.
As we examine the life of Jesus, there were many times when He corrected His disciples for wrong or sinful behavior. Jesus showed us that correction is an important aspect of discipleship. We are told in James 12:6 that “the Father chastens those whom He loves.” Fix your eyes upon Jesus and He will show you the way!
DREAMS..
You can accomplish ANYTHING in your dreams... because your mind knows no limits. Yet, when we are wide awake, we hold back. And we create goals that may not challenge our fullest potential. Go ahead, challenge your mind. Pretend as if you're DREAMING. Your mind can handle it, and so can you.
Small Business Owners: Exactly What You Need to Know to Succeed in Any Economy
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Black Friday...
Black Friday is the Christmas shopping day in the United
States. Like it or loathe it, you know about it, and you also
know there are deals galore just waiting for you to find them.
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know there are deals galore just waiting for you to find them.
Believe it or not, though, there is a strategy for getting the
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Monday 22 November 2010
The Secrets of Building Your Own Solar Energy...
Did you know you can build your own Solar Panels, saving
$10,000s off of retail price -- and for less than $200 of
parts?
The good news is that almost anyone can do this, even if they
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There is a great, must read "Do It Yourself Solar Energy"
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Humane Society...
Did you know...
... that today is the birthday of the Humane Society (1954)?
Founded in Washington, D.C., it's the largest animal advocacy
organization in the world. A nice bit of trivia: During
Hurricane Katrina, the HSUS joined other organizations in a
massive search-and-rescue effort that saved approximately
10,000 animals, and raised more than $34 million for direct
relief, reconstruction, and recovery in the Gulf Coast region.
... that today is the birthday of the Humane Society (1954)?
Founded in Washington, D.C., it's the largest animal advocacy
organization in the world. A nice bit of trivia: During
Hurricane Katrina, the HSUS joined other organizations in a
massive search-and-rescue effort that saved approximately
10,000 animals, and raised more than $34 million for direct
relief, reconstruction, and recovery in the Gulf Coast region.
Saturday 20 November 2010
A recipe for a life of peace...
A recipe for a life of peace, healing, contentment. In order of importance: Be kind to yourself. To your faith. Be kind to your family. Be kind to those who can make a difference. And certainly to those who need it most. Share this spirit with everyone who comes into your life, and he or she will return the favor... TENFOLD!
Wednesday 17 November 2010
Is Your Life COMPLETE?
When we talk about living a complete life, what do we mean? Are we talking about simply achieving goals as a way to show accomplishments? Not exactly – a complete life means that you live a life that is fulfilled and full of happiness.
Goals are an important part of it, but so are personal and professional relations, passions and desires. For almost everyone, living a complete life is an ongoing process – every day we take steps or perform tasks that help us achieve the goals and desires we have set forth in our life.
It’s very easy to live life – to go through the motions – without living fulfilled. Far too many of us are getting up every day and we don’t have a passion or purpose in what we do. We’ve lost track of our life goals and are not sure how to get back on the path towards living a fulfilled life.
So how do we get back on track in our lives? Or if we already are on track, what are some of the tips that can help keep us on track? I’ve compiled a list of 5 areas that you can focus on that can help you achieve living a fulfilled and complete life.
Goals are an important part of it, but so are personal and professional relations, passions and desires. For almost everyone, living a complete life is an ongoing process – every day we take steps or perform tasks that help us achieve the goals and desires we have set forth in our life.
It’s very easy to live life – to go through the motions – without living fulfilled. Far too many of us are getting up every day and we don’t have a passion or purpose in what we do. We’ve lost track of our life goals and are not sure how to get back on the path towards living a fulfilled life.
So how do we get back on track in our lives? Or if we already are on track, what are some of the tips that can help keep us on track? I’ve compiled a list of 5 areas that you can focus on that can help you achieve living a fulfilled and complete life.
Turn Your Desires and Wants into Goals
We all have desires and wants in our life. For some of us it can be a desire to be able to retire early, for others we may have a want to get the latest BMW. For many people they have a desire to make sure that they leave behind a legacy of doing well in both their personal and professional lives.
In order to achieve your wants and desires, set up goals for yourself. In fact, many people find that by having goals – and milestones to achieving that goal – that they have the motivating power to actually make it happen. Setting up goals gives you the purpose for getting up in the morning and helps fuel the drive to succeed. Make sure your goals are achievable by breaking them down into smaller steps. Then celebrate each time you achieve one of the steps towards the larger goal!
We all have desires and wants in our life. For some of us it can be a desire to be able to retire early, for others we may have a want to get the latest BMW. For many people they have a desire to make sure that they leave behind a legacy of doing well in both their personal and professional lives.
In order to achieve your wants and desires, set up goals for yourself. In fact, many people find that by having goals – and milestones to achieving that goal – that they have the motivating power to actually make it happen. Setting up goals gives you the purpose for getting up in the morning and helps fuel the drive to succeed. Make sure your goals are achievable by breaking them down into smaller steps. Then celebrate each time you achieve one of the steps towards the larger goal!
Turn Your Goals into Habits
Now that you have defined your goals, or better yet you have achieved them, don’t step there! Turn those goals into habits. If your goal was to finish your college education then make it a habit – make education a part of your everyday life by always learning and doing. If your goal was to get rid of the clutter in your life then make sure you don’t stop once you have achieved it or else the clutter will find its way back into your life!
Habits help us continually achieve goals and even help take small goals and transform them into larger ones. For instance, if you have achieved your goal of reducing your energy and water usage help others see the benefits of doing so as well – expand your goal by making it your habit! People learn by seeing others do.
Now that you have defined your goals, or better yet you have achieved them, don’t step there! Turn those goals into habits. If your goal was to finish your college education then make it a habit – make education a part of your everyday life by always learning and doing. If your goal was to get rid of the clutter in your life then make sure you don’t stop once you have achieved it or else the clutter will find its way back into your life!
Habits help us continually achieve goals and even help take small goals and transform them into larger ones. For instance, if you have achieved your goal of reducing your energy and water usage help others see the benefits of doing so as well – expand your goal by making it your habit! People learn by seeing others do.
Track Your Progress and Celebrate Your Accomplishments
If you remember, I said that in order to make your goals achievable to break them down into smaller steps and celebrate each step as you achieve it. It’s important that we recognize the progress we make in our lives – and that our friends and family make in theirs. It’s positive reinforcement and it is one of the most crucial ingredients in leading a happy, fulfilled life.
Celebrate accomplishments and use the momentum from achieving that milestone as the catalyst to propel you towards the next milestone! You will find that soon you have developed a positive self-feeding cycle in your life and you will be able to achieve anything you put your mind to!
If you remember, I said that in order to make your goals achievable to break them down into smaller steps and celebrate each step as you achieve it. It’s important that we recognize the progress we make in our lives – and that our friends and family make in theirs. It’s positive reinforcement and it is one of the most crucial ingredients in leading a happy, fulfilled life.
Celebrate accomplishments and use the momentum from achieving that milestone as the catalyst to propel you towards the next milestone! You will find that soon you have developed a positive self-feeding cycle in your life and you will be able to achieve anything you put your mind to!
Watch Out For the Negatives
How many of us limit ourselves by listening to old, outdated and just plain wrong advice and conventions? When people tell you that you can’t do something because you haven’t done X or Y first, just smile and tell them “Thanks, but I think I’ll give it a shot!” Never limit yourself or your beliefs.
It seems that in life people are always more apt to listen to those who want to spread the negative emotions and thoughts around than they are those who want to spread around the message of “Yes you can!” Learn how to overcome those who want to be held back by old, outdated beliefs and propel yourself forward knowing that you can do something if you work hard at it.
Bill Gates, the founder of Microsoft, didn’t believe in the old belief at the time that IBM didn’t do business with small companies – and look at where he is now!
How many of us limit ourselves by listening to old, outdated and just plain wrong advice and conventions? When people tell you that you can’t do something because you haven’t done X or Y first, just smile and tell them “Thanks, but I think I’ll give it a shot!” Never limit yourself or your beliefs.
It seems that in life people are always more apt to listen to those who want to spread the negative emotions and thoughts around than they are those who want to spread around the message of “Yes you can!” Learn how to overcome those who want to be held back by old, outdated beliefs and propel yourself forward knowing that you can do something if you work hard at it.
Bill Gates, the founder of Microsoft, didn’t believe in the old belief at the time that IBM didn’t do business with small companies – and look at where he is now!
Keep Your Mind Open Change
We should always make sure that we have an open mind and learn that change happens and sometimes we need to modify our desires or goals. This doesn’t mean you should give up on something because you think it is too hard to achieve, but rather you should be open for new ways of achieving that goal or modifying the goal to take advantage of advanced in technology, science and the world around us.
Successful people know that change is part of life – and that change does not, as many people believe, happen suddenly but rather is a gradual process that takes place every minute of the day. By being aware of the change that happens around them they can better focus their goals and desires to take advantage of change instead of being surprised by it.
We should always make sure that we have an open mind and learn that change happens and sometimes we need to modify our desires or goals. This doesn’t mean you should give up on something because you think it is too hard to achieve, but rather you should be open for new ways of achieving that goal or modifying the goal to take advantage of advanced in technology, science and the world around us.
Successful people know that change is part of life – and that change does not, as many people believe, happen suddenly but rather is a gradual process that takes place every minute of the day. By being aware of the change that happens around them they can better focus their goals and desires to take advantage of change instead of being surprised by it.
Are you preparing to bring fulfillment to your life? Use this list as guide then watch as change starts to happen around you. People will notice when you change your attitude and outlook, and when they do it is almost viral – they begin to change theirs as well! Before you know it, not only are you living a full, complete life but you also were the catalyst for others to find fulfillment in their lives as well!
Tuesday 16 November 2010
Metamorphosis..
The Greek word for transformed, metamorphosis (used in Romans 12:2 and 2 Corinthians
3:18), is used today to describe the amazing change a caterpillar goes
through in becoming a butterfly. It is a beautiful picture of what
happens to us spiritually when we allow God to direct our thoughts: we
are changed from the inside ou...t, we become more beautiful, and we are
set free to soar to new heights.
Nature..
Keep your eyes open to the beauty around you. See the wonder in nature and then take time to see the wonder and beauty within you. Throughout our life we must journey within to more appreciate the journey itself.
Be Great..
Some days can be going great. We have the sunshine and everything goes according to plan and yet we seem to be quick to get frustrated. I heard someone suggest to witness the anger and fruatration, however, don’t onw the anger. I agree, there are moments when we feel irritated and if we don’t identify [...]
Be Clever!
Hide your weaknesses in front of your enemy, but you have to know when to show it: “in front of your bestfriend”.
Monday 15 November 2010
The Success.....The Secrets..
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The internet will continue to allow more and more people to pursue entrepreneurial ambition.
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You can create your lifestyle you deserve!
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